My First Date Was A Fiasco - He Was A Creep! My Boyfriend Was A Pathological Liar 2 months ago   06:24




This is Sarah. Everyone says that there’s something so special about first dates, and it seems that we all get really worried before they happen. In Sarah’s case, she took it way too seriously and had the worst first date anyone could imagine!

She’s not sure how it happened, but Sarah missed the ‘first date bus’ when she was in her early teens. In addition to her studies, she has always been into a lot of different activities, like music, archery, and fencing. So she literally had no time for dating.

Archery and fencing seem like they would be good hobbies to help you meet a guy, right? But…not in her case. She was in a girls-only class for fencing, and the archery club had only two boys, both of whom were much younger than she was. It looked like statistics were playing a bad joke on her. She even tried approaching guys at school, but she was way too shy to show off like the other girls. So all the normal guys were quickly taken... but – you guessed it – not by her.

Compared to Sarah, Sheila (her close friend) was a real expert at dating. She analyzed her case and suggested going on a blind date to kick-start her new love life.

After a brief chat using a dating app, they scheduled a date for her for the following week with someone named Sean. Sheila had done this numerous times, so she gave her detailed instructions on how to act. First, she was supposed to make sure that the guy looked the same as on the dating app. As Sheila says, “The one who lies once will keep on lying.” Then Sarah was supposed to keep her distance, to let him know that she was interested in a long-term relationship. Third, she had to talk about guy stuff to keep him interested in the conversation. Luckily, she also watched football from time to time with her dad, so that didn’t seem like a problem. Finally, she was supposed to ask some questions to get to know Sean better.

It looked like she was 100 percent ready to charm Sean, but…on the big day, everything went wrong.

Sean looked pretty much like he did online, he was just...ummm…much less confident. She decided to take the lead and stretched her hand out for a hand shake…and almost hit Sean as he suddenly rushed to hug her. It was the most awkward hug ever! She hopes nobody saw it.

They walked to the park in COMPLETE silence. Soon, Sarah had lost any hope that Sean would start a conversation (Sheila said that a normal guy should be able to do that, so Sean got the second strike within the first ten minutes). She asked how Sean felt about the results of a recent football game. His answer surprised her a lot: Sean said that he didn’t like to discuss stuff like that. “Why don't we discuss something more romantic, like The Mortal Instruments?” Seriously? If Sheila was there she would have given Sean his third and biggest strike. Sarah has nothing against The Mortal Instruments, or Twilight, or anything like that. It just seemed like a really girly book for a guy to be reading. So, she dropped the topic before it went too far.

Silence fell between them again. Sarah was becoming more and more certain that her first date was about to fail. But this was just the beginning.

Sarah gave Sean one last chance to make up for everything he’d got wrong, and asked about his hobbies. For a moment, he looked really inspired, as if he had remembered something that could possibly save the situation. He opened his backpack…“Maybe, he has a present for me?” she thought. He looked inside, but then acted like he was hiding something from her, and quickly zipped it back up.

She assumed Sean had forgotten about her question, because he suddenly started bombarding her with his own ones. He didn't really listen right to the end of her answers either, and it seemed more like an interrogation than a conversation. She was getting nervous, and Sean was approaching the tenth-strike mark after which, according to Sheila, she could leave the date without any excuses.

Finally, she must've passed the interview, or maybe Sean just ran out of questions, and she started trying to figure out a good excuse to leave, when he suddenly asked if she wanted to have lunch. She said yes, with basically no enthusiasm.

By the time they got to the pizza place, her unfortunate boyfriend for the day had become very pale. A nice interior and the tasty smell in the air had her believing that some pizza might be able save her first date from being THAT bad. Their order was served, but Sean didn’t touch the food. His face was still very pale, then he began to turn almost green. “Are you ok?” Sarah asked him. With a smile, Sean assured her that he was fine and went to the bathroom.

If you want to know more about this story, watch the video to the end!

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Shiela be lookin like Kim possible
Parker Lovett
This poor dude!!! Change the title to “Went on a date with a girl who had too high of expectations”
Isela G.
Begone Thot
Haughty Gamer
Seems like you’re the creep for thinking that he’s weird for liking “girl” books
Princess Blessing
My first date was a Fiasco but second was normal
Daisy Gomes
kim possible who?
Cody Art
Hi! I was just wondering how to submit a story!
Sorry this is like the topic that is so far away from this video but I'll just speak tagalog
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Maddi VS Asmr
How is he a creep.....his not a creep
Moral of the stoRy
Don’t AsK frEndS fouR datEing AdvicE
Mia Moore
Why does he look like Ron Stoppable
Dartaven Fosnaugh
Im not a creep i just like watching you while your sleeping
Poison Ivy
Awwww cute story
Leah Block
1:34 guy stuff?

No no
TeChNiXaL wAvE
"A girly book for a guy to be reading"
So your saying I can't read girly books because I'm a guy? That's a bit sexist don't you think?
Zlata Ustina
Ron are u cheating on Kim?????😢
kaius ross
so... Shelia's a thot?
Rose’s Garden
my name is Sheila.....
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My Boyfriend Was A Pathological Liar My First Date Was A Fiasco - He Was A Creep! 2 months ago   05:34




Hi, this girl’s name is Sara, and she wants to tell you a story that broke her heart. Now that she’s getting over it, she feels the urge to share it with someone, as a lot of you guys probably know somebody like her ex-boyfriend. His name is Jake, but now she can't even be sure about that.

It all happened during her first year in high school. Her family moved to another town, and everything was all new to her. She didn't know anyone in her class, and on her first day she mostly just watched what was going on, as she was too shy to start a conversation.

And out of all the boys in her new class, it was Jake who drew her attention. Really, it was hard not to notice him. He was so popular. He was not on any school team and he didn't study a lot really, but there was something about him that made people want to be around him.

So of course when Jake sat down beside her at lunch, and started talking to her, Sara was...interested. In a couple of weeks she was certain that he liked her.

Every day Jake had a story to tell. He played drums in a band that was already quite successful, and had several shows outside their town; he wrote poetry; he was a talented young painter and he would get in trouble every other day for protecting a girl or saving a puppy.

So, within about a month and a half they started dating. To be honest, what made Sara feel even better was the fact that half of the girls in her class were secretly in love with Jake. That was the kind of a secret that everyone knew. And of course, they were madly jealous.

It all started better than she could have imagined. Jake was the boy of her dreams – he was smart and funny, and she was charmed by everything he said.

And it was like this for several weeks. On one of their dates, he told her that he'd be out of town for a week, as his band had an upcoming concert in a neighboring city. She was constantly trying to hint to him that she really wanted meet the guys from his band and to see him play...but he had a new excuse every time, or pretended he didn't notice.

The same thing happened this time. He just IGNORED what she said, and left the next day!

Sara didn't like that at all, but she was already in love, so now she was paying close attention to his his excuses. “Maybe he'd be too nervous if I was around? Or maybe he's preparing a surprise show for me really soon?”

So the first thing thing that made her think something was wrong was the picture his dad posted on Facebook. His parents were in that neighboring city and...Jake was with them! For the next twenty minutes she spent her time just thinking about possible explanations of how that might have happened. “Maybe his parents were there at the show to support him?” But why, in that case, didn't he invite her?

She couldn't find any answers, so she had to admit something was seriously wrong. She started to check the facts.

After an hour of recalling his stories and googling basically everything, Sara found out that her boyfriend’s life was one big lie. According to Instagram, for example, he was out with his friends the day he told her he was rehearsing; the art exhibitions he mentioned didn't even exist; the epic stories he told about himself seemed to have happened to other people, and the last thing...The band with the name he had always mentioned didn't have a drummer. It was electronic.

She decided to pretend everything was okay until he came back home. She texted him messages of support and questions about the show – oh yes, she had a strategy.

So they met up after he came back, and sure enough he started telling Sara about his concert, and how cool everything had been and that it was a shame that she...wait for it...COULDN'T COME. She chose the best possible moment to say what she had to say. She told him everything she’d found out. He tried to defend himself, and even manipulate her, saying that they’d have to break up, but she didn’t care anymore. She was furious.

In the middle of her monologue, he broke down in tears. He said that his parents had to get out of town and they just took him with them, not leaving him any choice. There was no band, no poetry, no art. As he was speaking she realized that he was making it all up because he felt so…insecure. Jake really thought that he was a loser, and that without making all of these things up he wouldn’t have any friends. She felt sorry for him.

So there she was, even close to forgiving him, but he looked up at her and said: “Please don’t tell the guys”.

They broke up the same day, of course. And…she didn’t tell anybody. Everyday at school, he keeps on telling his stories, and everyone still believes him. She hopes that someday he’ll just grow up.

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