Don’t Try to Stop Your Negative How to Deal with an Exploitative Spouse? 2 days ago   03:30

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The value of this talk is high but The irony of this channel being uploaded by LOA is that he specifically challenged positive thinking and say the key names behind it all went crazy
abz fj
Its just thought we shouldnt defines them as negative 2019 no negative byt taught thanks sir
Henry Nguyen
Negative thoughts sometime actually prevent you from doing it...
Mr NooNe
I dont know others sir. But when i listen Sadhguru i just want to see only Sadhguru... with respects
Space case
It's just a thot 😂
Dont engage in *unwanted* Thoughts
zeroinone inzero
Would be good if u have the original video link
Michael Ockerby
I am resistant to a few of these ideas, yet understand, to some degree, his position and reasons. I would be required to watch many of his lectures, yet see that he takes the position of considering "thoughts" as "neutral" - and that when the individual identifies with that which they are genuinely not, this is when we can see "negative" thoughts envelop them. However, I do not take the position that thoughts are a "neutral" phenomena; I take the position that "thoughts" are absolutely rich with Value, Meaning, Emotions, and therefore, are not Neutral - for it is this value laden, meaning imbued and emotion rich nature of these thoughts which direct the individual towards, the actions, decisions, choices that one makes. To master this process, and to Master these "thoughts", is of Prime Importance. Absolute Importance!!! Go deeper than simply the thoughts, and go right into the nature of your desires > it is your Desires that determine, everything. For you may say you think a certain way, give reasons as to why you believe it, give every justification as to what choice you would make and it all seems rational and logical, yet in the final analysis, would indeed, behave, make choices and decisions which belie every single reason given. BE very mindful. Indeed, be Absolutely mindful of your thoughts, your desires!!!
Aleesha Khan
I really needed to hear this 😊
Lawrence Barr
Is that title a reverse psychology sort of thing, clickbait in a way?
Marc Pelletier
How do you know there are thoughts?
Kajetan John
Who mixed that wisdom with a globetrotter comercial ?
Mr.K- B
Unexperienced man don't talk rubbish who have not that fine visual power . You egotistical peaple is bounded by ignorance and illusions and yours mind mirror is covered by dust.
Mr.K- B
What a factual talking ; that is the point we should follow.
Crypto Ozzy
U have to stop your negative thoughts as other negative thoughts join the first one, like attracts like, law of attraction works both ways doesn't it?
Crazy laugh
There is no bad food and no negative thoughts.
Recycle BinLaden
Its a bit puzzling to see Sadhguru video on 'Law of Attraction' channel when he clearly said Law of Attraction does not work.
Thakur Timmy
Shat shat naman guru ji
Does 'Law of Attraction Coaching' know Sadhguru' talk about the law of attraction? :D
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How to Deal with an Exploitative Spouse? Don’t Try to Stop Your Negative 2 days ago   09:14

Responding to a question about exploitative relationships, Sadhguru explains that meditativeness is an important quality to bring into our lives and our families, rather than trying to fix the other person. Meditativeness fundamentally means to become in such a way that we are not the source of the problem -- wherever we are, we are a solution.



Questioner: Sadhguru, Namaskaram (Pause).

Sadhguru: I didn’t say anything (Laughter).

Questioner: Sadhguru, how to conduct oneself when, you know, when you have a very exploitative spouse, you know?

Sadhguru: You’re talking about how to conduct him or yourself?

Questioner: Myself.

Sadhguru: No, actually you want to know how to fix him, right?

Questioner: No, Sadhguru.

Sadhguru: (Laughs) So you want him to… You want him to be conduct… continue to be an exploitative spouse, and you want to learn how to be part of that (Laughter)?

Questioner: I’m unable to understand how to deal with this situation.

Sadhguru: No, this is what – first you must understand – do you want to deal with him or yourself?

Questioner: Myself, Sadhguru.

Sadhguru: No (Laughter). Let’s be straight, come on. We want to fix him, don’t we (Laughter / Applause)? Enna maa? Hmm? (Speaks in Tamil – not transcribed) (Laughs)?

So this is very important. I’m particularly talking to you. Please sit down. It’s very important that we are straight with life, do you understand? What you want is your husband fixed, but because you’re sitting in front of me you’re saying, “Sadhguru, how do I fix myself to fit into this exploitation?” (Laughter) – which is not the truth (Laughs). You want to know how to fix the man. Yes or no? Please tell me, all the ladies (Laughter). If you perceive him – we don’t know what he is – we’re not talking about your husband. I do not know what he is, but if you perceive him as exploitative, obviously you want to fix him, isn’t it? If you perceive yourself as a problematic wife, then maybe some thought about, “Maybe I want to fix myself,” will come up. When you perceive somebody as exploitative, the intention is to fix them, isn’t it? But we wouldn’t want to be straight about that because the culture doesn’t tell you… the culture tells you “Fixing your husband is not a good thing – you must fix yourself (Laughs).”

So if you get a headache, go for a foot surgery – then the foot will be aching more than the head (Laughter) – kind of fixed (Laughter). At least your attention is gone. So it’s time… If we are concerned about life it’s time that we are one hundred percent straight, at least with ourselves. Maybe in the world, we don’t know what profession you have, what situations you have, we don’t know how straight you can be – I will not interfere with that, but at least (Laughs) with yourself you must be hundred percent straight – very important. Otherwise, neither yourself nor your life situations will ever get fixed, simply complaining and going on. Life will be a lifelong complaint for a whole lot of people because they don’t want to address it, they want to beat around it.

So, husband-fixing program we must do (Laughter). No, we have fixed a whole lot of them, because they become meditative and suddenly their exploitative nature went away because now they’re busy with something else. So I… I don’t want to get into a personal situation right now here, but you must bring meditativeness into you and into your family. This is something we have to invest into life now. If you’re not able to fix your husband, at least you must have a wish that the next generation of husbands are not exploitative. If you’re interested in that, you must make sure your little boy that you have right now, you must fix him now with some meditation. Yes. Meditation is not about fixing him against something. It is just that meditativeness means to become in such a way that you are not the source of the problem. Wherever you are, you’re a solution, you’re not a problem.

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